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How Personal Responsibility Empowers You to Reach Your Goals #PODCAST

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Today I’m revisiting a post from a few months ago because I finally made a podcast out of it so you can listen while you work (or just sit and listen to absorb some good vibes and smart talk).

Listen now to find out how taking personal responsibility increases your self reliance and resourcefulness, and empowers you to actually finally accomplish your goals and turn your dreams to reality.

If you keep blaming your circumstances or your past or other people on your current situation, you’re never going to get what you want out of life. If you take responsibility, then that empowers you to make changes that are necessary to get you to move forward toward your goals.

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Thanks for listening. I always love to hear what you have to say. Here’s my thought question for you today:

What are you relying on in life to stay comfortable instead of using your own personal strength and skills to get ahead? What changes are you going to make to empower yourself to reach your goals?

Do you agree that if you take responsibility for your life that you are that much more likely to succeed?

Let me know what you think! Leave a comment below!

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Podcast Transcript:

Hey everybody, it’s Lisha Yost, Founder of UpGusto Personal Development, and today I wanted to talk to you about personal responsibility.

There was a man named Peter. And he grew up in a poor family. So he knew he had to work really hard to get ahead. So he got really good grades in school. And he even studied other trades and businesses. And eventually he came to run a successful catering business. What he ended up doing was trying to put a lot of his profits back into his business, in advertising and marketing, and into expanding his business and hiring more employees, and giving them top notch benefits and big bonuses every year.

And although he put a lot of his profits back into his business, he still earned a large sum every year, so obviously he taxes were high. A portion of Peter’s income that he slaved away to generate over years of hard work went to the government to use as they see fit. And of course, some of that goes to welfare.

Welfare was created during the great depression in 1935 when the US unemployment rate was at 20% still. This began the dependence on government aid, and that is really what it has become.

George Bernard Shaw, who is a playwright and cofounder of the London School of Economics says that “A government that robs Peter to pay Paul, can expect the support of Paul. So Paul is definitely going to support the government that robs Peter to pay him.

I’m not saying that people shouldn’t give their fair share. If you have more, then you have more to give. But what I am saying is that the government not only is helping family in their time of need, but they also enable families to continue to be in a lifelong time of need.

So these families that are on welfare know that they will always have the government to lean on in their times of need. If they can’t get ahead, it’s okay because they don’t really need to. And so they don’t get ahead. It’s not because they don’t really want to. It’s because it’s really hard. It takes a lot of time, it takes a lot of effort, it takes hard work. It takes patience and sacrifice. And it’s not easy, so most people think that they can’t do it, and not only that, but most people know they don’t have to. So living in poverty has become the status quo for them. It’s become comfortable. And it seems weird and ironic that struggling financially can become comfortable, but that’s what it is. It’s like the woman who stays in the abusive relationship. It’s familiar. It’s harmful, but it’s familiar.

So what harmful things do you keep doing, just because it’s familiar?

People like to complain about their lives and they don’t want to take responsibility, but everyone has the same hope for succeeding whether it be financially, relationally, physically, or spiritually. It’s just that successful people take different steps, and they take different actions, and they make different choices.

What do you want to become successful in? What does success mean to you? Are you going to do what it takes to get there. Are you going to work hard. Are you going to buckle down and get the hard work done? Are you willing to make sacrifices in order to live a better more fulfilling life? Then stop living the status quo, start believing in yourself and start doing what it takes to get to where you want in life.

Do you want to want to lose 20 lbs? Do you want to have a thriving marriage full of passion? Do you want to become a millionaire? Or maybe you want to start a non-profit that helps those that are less fortunate.

What do you want to do with your life?

If you keep blaming your circumstances or your past or other people on your current situation, you’re never going to get what you want out of life. If you take responsibility, then that empowers you to make changes that are necessary to get you to move forward toward your goals.

We’re not in control of everything. But anything that you have control over, then it’s time to take control of it. Start taking personal responsibility for where you are in life right now. And start making the necessary changes to get what you want out of life.

What habits can you change right now, even just a little bit, to get you closer to your goals?

Do it, starting today.

Now I want to hear from you. In a comment below, please answer this question: What are you relying on in life to stay comfortable instead of using your own personal strength and skills to get ahead? What changes are you going to make to empower yourself to reach your goals?

The Force That Holds Us Back – And How to Overcome It

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Have you ever wondered what the difference is between someone who has what many would call a successful life versus someone who seems to be constantly struggling? I’ve wondered this many times myself. What factors really determine how far a person goes in life? After all don’t we all deserve to have a life filled with abundance? After doing a lot of reading, meeting different people from all walks of life, listening to audios, and experiencing this firsthand myself I have come to a realization what that factor is for many. Fear.

Fear is simply an illusion trying to hold us back from becoming what we really are meant to be. It is that belittling feeling where you question your capability. You start to wonder can I really do this? This doesn’t seem like the path for me. Someone must have made a mistake. Well, I am here to tell you that is all wrong. I truly believe that we are given in life not what we may ask for but what is meant for us.

Have you ever noticed how some opportunities that come to us are the rarest times but turn out to be a blessing or a life changing experience? Unfortunately sometimes Fear gets the best of us. And why does it, you may ask? What are we actually afraid of…?

Many things really, it is human nature to look at the negative things before you even notice the good. We are afraid to fail, to let others down, to embarrass ourselves, to try and be disappointed by not getting what we originally desired and dreamed for. But what if we could simply decide not to let Fear have control over us. We can! And yes it is that simple as just Deciding. Deciding that the desire to achieve something is far more greater than your fear wanting to control you.

You must condition yourself to break away from the limiting belief which is fear. That is really what Fear is; a belief. A belief that something atrocious will happen if you go on to take particular actions towards something. You must ask yourself what is it that I am afraid of? Why am I so afraid of this? What is the worst thing that will come from this?

Don’t let Fear, a mere illusion hold you back from fulfilling your ultimate destiny. Visualize what will be on the other side when you overcome that fear. The rewards will be immeasurable!

So next time you are to do a speech in front of hundreds, take on a new position at work, or are faced with a challenge of any kind, and that sensation of fear overcomes you, you know what you need to do. Take charge! Take control! And the world will open up to YOU.

About the Author

martha_villegasMartha Villegas fell in love with the world of personal development a few years back. As a current college student she knows the world is filled with immeasurable possibilities. Originally looking to gain a career in the fashion industry she now knows what her true calling is. She has developed a passion to share the knowledge she has learned with others. She believes that each person has so much potential inside and wants to help others discover theirs. Martha’s goal is to become a personal coach to empower individuals and the younger generation to live a life of abundance. Follow Martha on Twitter.

Taking Personal Responsibility Empowers You to Accomplish Your Goals

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Today I want to talk to you about personal responsibility.

There was a man named Peter. He grew up in a poor family, so he knew he had to work hard and be smart in order to get out of the struggle and not repeat his parents’ fate. He got good grades in school and even studied other trades and business.

Eventually he came to run a successful catering business. He tried to put a lot of his profits back into the business in marketing and advertising, and expanding his business, hiring more employees, giving his employees top-notch benefits and bonuses each year.

But with all the hard work he put into his business, he still earned a large sum every year, so obviously his taxes were high. A portion of Peter’s income that he slaved away to create, was given to the government to use as they see fit. Some of which went to people on welfare.

Welfare in the US was created during the Great Depression in 1935 when 20% of the US population was still unemployed.

And so began the dependence on government aid. And that’s exactly what it’s become.

I say all of this coming from a family of poverty on welfare. So before you start swinging your hammer at me, know that I understand.

George Bernard Shaw, an Irish playwright and co-founder of the London School of Economics said that “A government that robs Peter to pay Paul can always depend on the support of Paul.”

Ever hear that quote?

I’m not saying that people shouldn’t give their fair share. If you have more, then you have more to give.

What I am saying is that government aid not only helps struggling families in their times of need, it also enables a struggling family to continue to be in a lifelong time of need. They know deep down that they will always have the government to lean on if they can’t get ahead, so then they don’t get ahead. Not because they really don’t want to, but because getting ahead really does take a lot of hard work and time. It takes a lot of patience and sacrifice. It’s not easy, so most people think they can’t do it, and not only that, most people know they don’t have to.

So since it’s really hard to do, people think they can’t or won’t be able to, and because they really don’t have to because there is always the government to rely on, they just won’t do it.

Living in poverty has become the status quo for them. They are used to it. It actually becomes comfortable. It seems ironic that living through a constant financial struggle can become comfortable, but it does. Just like the woman who stays in the abusive relationship. It’s familiar.

It’s harmful, but it’s familiar.

What harmful things do you keep doing simply because it’s familiar?

People like to complain about their lives, but then don’t take responsibility. Everyone really has the same hope at succeeding in life, whether that be financially, relationally, physically, or spiritually. But successful people make different choices and take different actions, even in the little things.

What do you want to become successful in? What does success mean to you? Are you going to do what it takes to get there? Are you going to buckle down and get the hard work done? Are you willing to make sacrifices in order to live a better more fulfilling life?

Then stop living the status quo. Start believing in yourself, and start completing the steps it takes to get where you want to be in life.

Do you want to lose 20 pounds? Do you want to have a thriving marriage full of passion? Do you want to be a millionaire? Do you want to start a non-profit organization to help those less fortunate?

What do you want to do with your life?

If you keep blaming your circumstances, your past, your finances, and other people in your life on your current situation, you will never get what you really want out of life.

Once you accept responsibility, that empowers you to take action and begin to make awesome changes in your life. Click to Tweet This!

We are not in control of everything, but everything you have control over, it’s time to take control of it.

Start taking personal responsibility for where you are in life right now, and make the changes necessary to get what you want out of life. What habits can you change right now, even just a little bit, to get closer to your goals?

Do it, starting today.

Now I want to hear from you. In a comment below, please answer this question: What is one habit that you are going to try to change, stop, or create, in order to move forward toward a goal you have?

I’m excited to see your response and what you’re planning on working on. I’d like to help you get there and keep you accountable to your own desires. So write your comment below!

Here for a Reason #PODCAST

I wanted to tell you this inspirational story about a young girl who should have died getting hit by a 50 mph car, but instead, lived to tell the tale.

Moral of the story: We’re all here for a reason.

What’s your reason? What’s your story?

Fact correction for this podcast: This mystery girl was 16 when this happened, but I was shooting the video off the top of my head not really thinking about the factual details, just for clarification if this story ever comes up again and I get it right next time, I didn’t want you to be confused or feel like this story was just made up, because it really happened.

Listen now.

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Click here to download the podcast mp3.

Thanks for listening. I’d love to hear what you have to say. Here’s my thought question for you today:

What’s your story? What have you done to find your purpose?

Thanks for stopping by. Leave a comment. Share your story and what you want out of life. I’d love to hear from you. Your comments don’t fall on blind eyes. I read every single one.